Abesifazane abaningi benza okungaphezu kwalokho lapho bebodwa. Kodwa imithetho eyakhiwe ayibavumeli ukuba baphumule nomlingani. Akukhona ngaphandle kwesizathu abakushoyo, ukuthi owesifazane ohlakaniphile unalo ekhanda lakhe, isiwula sinalo emlonyeni wakhe. Ngiyazi ngisho namadoda angayifuni le nkululeko.
Yini engaba mnandi ukwedlula ukuklebhula kukamama womngane omkhulu. Insizwa imkhotha icwebezele ngolimi. Bese egibela phezu kwakhe, amkhombise ukuthi ubani umphathi endlini. Ividiyo elula, kodwa evusa inkanuko.