Ubudlelwane obuhle bomndeni. Kuhle ukubuka lapho umndeni onobungane uzitika ekujabuleleni ucansi, indodana nendodakazi zifunda futhi zithole ulwazi olubalulekile empilweni yocansi. Umama oqinile lapha, naye, uyafundisa futhi abonise indlela okufanele yenziwe ngayo ukuze uthole ukwaneliseka okukhulu. Kodwa ingquza yayingase igundwe ukuze kubonakale kahle ukuthi indodana isikhiphe isidoda esingakanani.
Ngeshwa, amaphupho anjalo awavamile hhayi kuphela abezimo eziphuthumayo (nakuba yena, usuku lonke ezungezwe abahlengikazi amantombazane amancane kule ndaba kunzima kakhulu). Angikwazi ukukhulumela blonde obust, kodwa ngivame ukuphupha ngocansi.